Another Deportation Update

First of all, I want to thank everyone that has come by to lend support.  It really really means a lot to me.

If you are new to this story, see Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3 of the saga.

I haven’t updated in a while because for most of the week nothing has changed.  The only new development was that someone in his unit got swine flu so everybody was quarantined for 7 days.  He’s still technically in quarantine so I can’t go visit him this weekend.  Lame.  Lucky for him, he is pretty much immune to viruses because he has Reiter’s syndrome, which makes him have rashes and arthritis instead of the flu when he gets sick.  But still, being trapped in jail with people with something as horrifying sounding as “swine flu” to someone who is kosher is pretty close to a living hell.  And the no visits thing is retarded, they’re not even contact visits, and you can’t transmit flu through the glass they put them behind or over the phone you have to talk on.

He finally got to speak to his deportation officer today–he had been in ICE detention for more than seven days and no one had yet talked to him about his case.  It was driving us both insane.  The lawyer has been trying to get the people from ICE to talk to her about his case but getting them to talk is a little like pulling teeth.

So because he was able to speak to his officer today, the ball is starting to roll towards getting out.  His travel documents are on the way to his officer from the Turkish consulate.  I booked him a flight for June 15, and tomorrow hopefully we’ll find out if they’re going to accept his travel arrangements.  If we don’t find out tomorrow, we’ll probably have to wait until Monday to hear anything else about his case.

Look to this post for more updates, I’ll be adding them to the bottom.  I’m trying to keep everything on this matter contained to as few posts as possible so you and I both don’t get confused.

Update 6/2/09

When it comes to talking about this situation on here, I go from needing to vent about it to not wanting to talk about it.  A few people commented that we are being really strong and rolling with these unexpected events.  I never thought about it in those terms before they brought it up.  Thanks guys. Life changes, and you never know how or when.  Never once did I think about leaving him just to avoid this situation, although he brought it up a few times.  I can’t imagine my life without him, I even had a really awesome dream about him last night.

Looking up at this post there are a few things that have changed.  First, the quarantine was lifted so I was able to go visit him on Sunday.  Since visiting hours for his unit are only between 8am and 9am I had to leave my house by 5:30am to get there.  In case you don’t know, I live in Austin, and this stupid jail is half way to Mexico.  The visit was okay, it was through glass, and we were both pretty emotional.  I was able to talk to him for almost half an hour though.

Second thing that’s changed, we found out that they are not going to let him use his own ticket, even though when he first got there he was told it was a good idea to book a ticket so that he could get out of there faster.  Fucking liars.  Well there’s 1,300 dollars I can kiss goodbye, at least I’ll get some Travelocity credits and maybe we’ll use them sometime this year.

The best news we’ve gotten so far is that his deportation officer is trying to get him expedited within three weeks, when normal wait time is a few months.  I’m hoping and praying that everything works as planned and he’s going to get out of there as soon as possible.


10 Responses to “Another Deportation Update”

  1. JavaQueen Says:

    I hope that ball keeps rolling! Swine flu, aaack! I’m glad your huz is ok!

    • Jen512 Says:

      Thanks JavaQueen, he’s trying to keep his spirits up. They didn’t even give the prisoners any face masks…just hand sanitizer.

  2. fadingnebula Says:

    I’m keeping you in my thoughts and hope that things go “as well as possible” given the situation. I’m pulling for you!!

  3. morethananelectrician Says:

    This has be be a lot for him to handle. You both have to be very strong people to endure this strife and drive on with, what seems like, and incedibly optimistic attitude. It makes some of my “issues” trivial in comparison.

    I wish your family strength and patience for a speedy resolution to this for the sanity and safety of everyone.

    • Jen512 Says:

      It’s been a really unexpected turn in our lives. But, everyone has those life-altering moments, we just have to make it though. I did hear today that I will get to go see him on Sunday, the quarantine has been lifted.

  4. Amanda Blog and Kiss Says:

    At least things are moving, and you have a realistic view on what has to happen. Consider this your big adventure!!! Shiiiiit, if you can get through deportation, you can survive ANYTHING.

    And I agree with above commenter- you guys are hella strong to go through this so unexpectedly, and still have your wits about you. Kudos to you!

  5. thegirlfromtheghetto Says:

    What a mess! I’m so sorry this is STILL going on.

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  7. birdpress Says:

    Life sure is full of adventure, right? I’m sorry you are going through this, but you really are doing a great job of everything. Mostly you are keeping a very healthy and positive attitude and getting everything done that you need to do. Some people would just lie down defeated, but you are just running around making things work!

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